"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm just a little pissed right now. Here's the story. Yesterday I meet this chick. I use heavy C&F. I tell her I have to go and I start to leave. She says that she wants to take me out to dinner tommorrow, which would be today.

She calls me this morning to tell me she can't make dinner tonight but she would do lunch with me tommorrow. In true DJ form I tell her that I already have a committment for tommorrow. You could hear a pin drop as she tries to recover.

She tries to pin me down for lunch but I tell her that we'll work something to get together one day.

I was so pissed that I was downgraded overnight from dinner to lunch. I kept my cool though.

Chicks are so flaky. I can't stand it sometimes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice going there. You let her know that your time is valuble.

But, i guess she prolly was genuine about the thing too.. dunno..?
 
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Yes she was genuine because she did call me BUT she tried to switch me from dinner to lunch.

The consensus here is that this is a downgrade. Think of it this way. It’s like inviting a chick to lunch but then you call her back and suggest that you guys go out for coffee instead.
 
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Originally posted by TylerDurden
Yes she was genuine because she did call me BUT she tried to switch me from dinner to lunch.

The consensus here is that this is a downgrade. Think of it this way. It’s like inviting a chick to lunch but then you call her back and suggest that you guys go out for coffee instead.
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You're right tyler. Regardless of whether her excuse was legit, she was trying to set a tone with you. You countered that by showing that you won't accept these little games.

P.S. It's one thing if she had a genuine excuse, but why say dinner, then go for lunch?
 
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Originally posted by TylerDurden
I'm just a little pissed right now. Here's the story. Yesterday I meet this chick. I use heavy C&F....
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Thats the biggest problem i saw. C&F works to an extent but its never good to use heavy C&F use it occasionaly. Alot of guys think its all about the C&F BUT ITS NOT.

Ninja Out
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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