"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I talked to a girl this morning on my way to bed like around(10) and was supposed to meet up with her this afternoon at 12. Since since she lives off campus and was comming to campus today anyway, I told her call me when she got here so we could hook up. Anyway seeing is how I slept to about 2 or 3, when I woke up I noticed she didn't call me(cause the phone would have waken me up or one of my room mates would have answered), there no call I.D. or nothing. Now even though she acts and seems very intrested, I'm about to give her my "screw it" rule and move on. Any ideas?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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one more thing should I chew her out next time I see her or just go about my buisness liked nothing happend?
 
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Give it one more try.. but wait a day or so, act like you didn't care that she flaked.

If she does it again.. move on.

In those two days, go out and get some other numbers!
 
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keep it cool, dont blast her for flaking on you. then ask her out the following week.. dont call the very next day.. i personally feel its too desperate and shows her that you"need" a date. which you don't, or at least you dont want her to know.
 
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