"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Flake Out

On_the_Top

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I talked to a girl this morning on my way to bed like around(10) and was supposed to meet up with her this afternoon at 12. Since since she lives off campus and was comming to campus today anyway, I told her call me when she got here so we could hook up. Anyway seeing is how I slept to about 2 or 3, when I woke up I noticed she didn't call me(cause the phone would have waken me up or one of my room mates would have answered), there no call I.D. or nothing. Now even though she acts and seems very intrested, I'm about to give her my "screw it" rule and move on. Any ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On_the_Top

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one more thing should I chew her out next time I see her or just go about my buisness liked nothing happend?
 

The TallOne

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Give it one more try.. but wait a day or so, act like you didn't care that she flaked.

If she does it again.. move on.

In those two days, go out and get some other numbers!
 

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keep it cool, dont blast her for flaking on you. then ask her out the following week.. dont call the very next day.. i personally feel its too desperate and shows her that you"need" a date. which you don't, or at least you dont want her to know.
 
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