"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was at a Holloween party at the local pub Saturday night.

I was aproaching women to ask them about thier costumes.

I was volunteering a wrong guess at thier costume and then not believing them when they told me what they were supposed to be.

This was both funny and frustrating for them.

The rest of the night, if I passed anyone that I had talked to previously, I would use a nickname that went with my wrong guess.

I suppose that this is "flair" to the extreme.

It is always nice to have something out of the ordinary to discuss to allow a conversation to start very easily.

It probably helped that I was not in any pick-up mode, just having fun.

By the end of the night, women were binging other women over to me to see if I could guess thier costumes.

It was fun, I will definately make it to a costume party every year from now on.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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clarification:

By flair, I mean having something like a tatoo, odd necklace or watch, funny tee-shirt, etc, that gives someone something to ask about.

These women took the time to dress like this, and really wanted someone to talk about it.

I read someone's article about have a flair item when they go out to give the woman something to ask about when we approach them, but I'm a bit straight laced in my appearance and have yet to come up with something of flair to have when going out.
 

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i wear shiit because i like it, that's all. I just bought a hollister arrowhead necklace with leather strap to wear when i have a polo shirt on with nothing underneath and i also bought a ring from pacsun.com

you have to like yourself and wear what you like, fucck what other people think man!
 

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Originally posted by Mr.B
clarification:

By flair, I mean having something like a tatoo, odd necklace or watch, funny tee-shirt, etc, that gives someone something to ask about.

These women took the time to dress like this, and really wanted someone to talk about it.

I read someone's article about have a flair item when they go out to give the woman something to ask about when we approach them, but I'm a bit straight laced in my appearance and have yet to come up with something of flair to have when going out.
i have a tattoo on my back , well , for neckalces you should find one with a guitar pick (or make one) if your into music which would strike up a conversation. Funny tee shirts are for joksters, so it would only work if you were one in which case you would already have one and you dont so dont bother!
 

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Funny tee shirts are for joksters, so it would only work if you were one in which case you would already have one and you dont so dont bother!
I enjoyed reading this sentence. lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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