Anima
Don Juan
I'll give more details later, but is it possible to fix your chances with a girl that your pre-DJ self f*cked up?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Fixing the Past?
- Thread starter Anima
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
JohnChops
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Listen. NO. It is not. She will always think of you as a beta. UNLESS, you disappear and maybe bump into her down the road (years later) then you can regame her and change her idea about you. But for the short term, thats a big 10 no.DoctorCoops said:
Don't waste your time trying to game her, it wont be worth it in the end coming from a guy who wasted 3 years trying to do just that. Dont make my mistake.
Infern0
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Yeah its possible but to go running after her trying to show that "you've changed" means you haven't changed at all.
If she reaches out for whatever reason treat her like any other girl and she'll realize pretty quickly.
You can't engineer these situations though Imo.
If she reaches out for whatever reason treat her like any other girl and she'll realize pretty quickly.
You can't engineer these situations though Imo.