Anima
Don Juan
I'll give more details later, but is it possible to fix your chances with a girl that your pre-DJ self f*cked up?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Fixing the Past?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
JohnChops
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Listen. NO. It is not. She will always think of you as a beta. UNLESS, you disappear and maybe bump into her down the road (years later) then you can regame her and change her idea about you. But for the short term, thats a big 10 no.DoctorCoops said:
Don't waste your time trying to game her, it wont be worth it in the end coming from a guy who wasted 3 years trying to do just that. Dont make my mistake.
Infern0
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Yeah its possible but to go running after her trying to show that "you've changed" means you haven't changed at all.
If she reaches out for whatever reason treat her like any other girl and she'll realize pretty quickly.
You can't engineer these situations though Imo.
If she reaches out for whatever reason treat her like any other girl and she'll realize pretty quickly.
You can't engineer these situations though Imo.