Anima
Don Juan
I'll give more details later, but is it possible to fix your chances with a girl that your pre-DJ self f*cked up?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fixing the Past?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
JohnChops
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Listen. NO. It is not. She will always think of you as a beta. UNLESS, you disappear and maybe bump into her down the road (years later) then you can regame her and change her idea about you. But for the short term, thats a big 10 no.DoctorCoops said:
Don't waste your time trying to game her, it wont be worth it in the end coming from a guy who wasted 3 years trying to do just that. Dont make my mistake.
Infern0
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Yeah its possible but to go running after her trying to show that "you've changed" means you haven't changed at all.
If she reaches out for whatever reason treat her like any other girl and she'll realize pretty quickly.
You can't engineer these situations though Imo.
If she reaches out for whatever reason treat her like any other girl and she'll realize pretty quickly.
You can't engineer these situations though Imo.