Why say 'let's stay positive' and open up with that? That's not the best mentality to have when it comes to dating or relationships - it's almost like you've set the end date and know it's coming, instead of just living in the moment. Almost a self fulfilling prophecy.
Why do you see this behaviour as 'love-bombing'... this isn't the first time you've come on my threads to say that.
Experience bro. Because I've had several(like at least 20) women treating me like this. Basically i wouldn't be surprised by this, but neither would I be surprised by the pull back. Ofcourse I enjoy it, but I try to be realistic about it tho.
I cant recall reacting to your threads , but hey, this is me. So my opinion might be similar on such topics. Nothing personal bro.
I say its love bombing, because it actually confirms the fact its surprising to you, while it should be default behaviour. Sometimes men do this by starting of the relationship by taking a woman out, dressing sharp ect , but after a while they can't keep up this " act".
I end with a positive quote because maybe ,like I say, you got a good one and I rather have you enjoying this then anxious micro checking for a shift in her behavior ( which will happen eventually).
I am just being realistic. I meet a woman on the first of January, and expect her to stay around untill the 1st of June . On the 1st of March I already evaluate where we stand(without having a convo ofcourse). Its just the way of the world. Read the forum. Countless testimonies of men who went through similar situations.
By the way if I mentioned this before, we talk about the same woman?
