"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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first time having sex: How do you make it not suck

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I'll probably be sleeping with my girlfriend sometime this week, and its my first time (Says a lot for this site, 6 weeks of finding this website and I'm in this position). Basically Im worried that once its in there, Im either going to *** too soon or its not going to last very long or its going to generally suck ass.

So, has anyone got any advice on how to handle a first time and make it not suck for her?

I've read chancellot's guide, but that seems a bit out of my league so far.

any help or advice would be great.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don't worry going into it. Make sure you are relaxed, in your own place, no parents home, a house to yourselves.

I've you go into sex worrying, you won't be hard or just have a very weak erection.

I know this from experience. My first time was in a basement with parents upstairs walking around and it wasn't in my own place. And man it took me awhile to overcome fear and worry.
 
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Just remember it is your first time,you will make mistakes,blow early, and some other pretty neat stuff. Just role with it and have fun.
 
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so what do u do after u bust in one minute? just roll over and be like dayum?
 
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scribblec said:
so what do u do after u bust in one minute? just roll over and be like dayum?
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Don't bust in one minute... Slow down and control it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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girlsarecrazy said:
Don't bust in one minute... Slow down and control it.
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Who cares just keep going. Even pornstars make mistakes and they are paid everyday to have sex.
 
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If it's your first time, it's really more important that you just get that first solid lay. it does so much for your confidence (the first time) that you can worry about technique later.

If you do want to last a little while, try practicing masterbating for periods of time of like 30-40 minutes without orgasm. Most virginal guys can't go past 12 minutes or so because they're used to focusing on their own pleasure instead of someone else's.
 
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That's what usually keeps me going. I focus on her pleasure a little more than mine.
 
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