"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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first time having sex: How do you make it not suck

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I'll probably be sleeping with my girlfriend sometime this week, and its my first time (Says a lot for this site, 6 weeks of finding this website and I'm in this position). Basically Im worried that once its in there, Im either going to *** too soon or its not going to last very long or its going to generally suck ass.

So, has anyone got any advice on how to handle a first time and make it not suck for her?

I've read chancellot's guide, but that seems a bit out of my league so far.

any help or advice would be great.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't worry going into it. Make sure you are relaxed, in your own place, no parents home, a house to yourselves.

I've you go into sex worrying, you won't be hard or just have a very weak erection.

I know this from experience. My first time was in a basement with parents upstairs walking around and it wasn't in my own place. And man it took me awhile to overcome fear and worry.
 
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Just remember it is your first time,you will make mistakes,blow early, and some other pretty neat stuff. Just role with it and have fun.
 
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so what do u do after u bust in one minute? just roll over and be like dayum?
 
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scribblec said:
so what do u do after u bust in one minute? just roll over and be like dayum?
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Don't bust in one minute... Slow down and control it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girlsarecrazy said:
Don't bust in one minute... Slow down and control it.
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Who cares just keep going. Even pornstars make mistakes and they are paid everyday to have sex.
 
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If it's your first time, it's really more important that you just get that first solid lay. it does so much for your confidence (the first time) that you can worry about technique later.

If you do want to last a little while, try practicing masterbating for periods of time of like 30-40 minutes without orgasm. Most virginal guys can't go past 12 minutes or so because they're used to focusing on their own pleasure instead of someone else's.
 
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That's what usually keeps me going. I focus on her pleasure a little more than mine.
 
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