"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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first time having sex: How do you make it not suck

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I'll probably be sleeping with my girlfriend sometime this week, and its my first time (Says a lot for this site, 6 weeks of finding this website and I'm in this position). Basically Im worried that once its in there, Im either going to *** too soon or its not going to last very long or its going to generally suck ass.

So, has anyone got any advice on how to handle a first time and make it not suck for her?

I've read chancellot's guide, but that seems a bit out of my league so far.

any help or advice would be great.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't worry going into it. Make sure you are relaxed, in your own place, no parents home, a house to yourselves.

I've you go into sex worrying, you won't be hard or just have a very weak erection.

I know this from experience. My first time was in a basement with parents upstairs walking around and it wasn't in my own place. And man it took me awhile to overcome fear and worry.
 
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Just remember it is your first time,you will make mistakes,blow early, and some other pretty neat stuff. Just role with it and have fun.
 
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so what do u do after u bust in one minute? just roll over and be like dayum?
 
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scribblec said:
so what do u do after u bust in one minute? just roll over and be like dayum?
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Don't bust in one minute... Slow down and control it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girlsarecrazy said:
Don't bust in one minute... Slow down and control it.
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Who cares just keep going. Even pornstars make mistakes and they are paid everyday to have sex.
 
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If it's your first time, it's really more important that you just get that first solid lay. it does so much for your confidence (the first time) that you can worry about technique later.

If you do want to last a little while, try practicing masterbating for periods of time of like 30-40 minutes without orgasm. Most virginal guys can't go past 12 minutes or so because they're used to focusing on their own pleasure instead of someone else's.
 
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That's what usually keeps me going. I focus on her pleasure a little more than mine.
 
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