"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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first time having sex: How do you make it not suck

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I'll probably be sleeping with my girlfriend sometime this week, and its my first time (Says a lot for this site, 6 weeks of finding this website and I'm in this position). Basically Im worried that once its in there, Im either going to *** too soon or its not going to last very long or its going to generally suck ass.

So, has anyone got any advice on how to handle a first time and make it not suck for her?

I've read chancellot's guide, but that seems a bit out of my league so far.

any help or advice would be great.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't worry going into it. Make sure you are relaxed, in your own place, no parents home, a house to yourselves.

I've you go into sex worrying, you won't be hard or just have a very weak erection.

I know this from experience. My first time was in a basement with parents upstairs walking around and it wasn't in my own place. And man it took me awhile to overcome fear and worry.
 
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Just remember it is your first time,you will make mistakes,blow early, and some other pretty neat stuff. Just role with it and have fun.
 
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so what do u do after u bust in one minute? just roll over and be like dayum?
 
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scribblec said:
so what do u do after u bust in one minute? just roll over and be like dayum?
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Don't bust in one minute... Slow down and control it.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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girlsarecrazy said:
Don't bust in one minute... Slow down and control it.
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Who cares just keep going. Even pornstars make mistakes and they are paid everyday to have sex.
 
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If it's your first time, it's really more important that you just get that first solid lay. it does so much for your confidence (the first time) that you can worry about technique later.

If you do want to last a little while, try practicing masterbating for periods of time of like 30-40 minutes without orgasm. Most virginal guys can't go past 12 minutes or so because they're used to focusing on their own pleasure instead of someone else's.
 
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That's what usually keeps me going. I focus on her pleasure a little more than mine.
 
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