"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First success ever!... Then frustration

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Alright, first the good news: For the first time in my life, in 18 years, I was able to ask a girl for her number, and get it! Woo! Trust me, this is huge for me, I've been working so hard to be able to do this all my life.

Now the bad news: I have heard from a very reliable friend to stay away from the first girl I got my number from. He has told me that she has moved out of her house (due to family problems), apparently does drugs, and has been with many older guys. None of this I knew before I asked for her number. Needless to say, I am quite frustrated with the circumstances. Can anyone tell me what to do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by BigJTMoney
Alright, first the good news: For the first time in my life, in 18 years, I was able to ask a girl for her number, and get it! Woo! Trust me, this is huge for me, I've been working so hard to be able to do this all my life.

Now the bad news: I have heard from a very reliable friend to stay away from the first girl I got my number from. He has told me that she has moved out of her house (due to family problems), apparently does drugs, and has been with many older guys. None of this I knew before I asked for her number. Needless to say, I am quite frustrated with the circumstances. Can anyone tell me what to do?
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Finding out if all of this true is a good start. I'm sure she can't hide moving out of her house from you. At least see if that is true.
 
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I'd trust the 'very reliable friend'. Numbers shouldnt be THAT hard to come by if you've made a start..
 
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Originally posted by DkurisuJ
I'd trust the 'very reliable friend'. Numbers shouldnt be THAT hard to come by if you've made a start..
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im gonna disagree 100% on this one. I was in a similar situation. I had this girl's interest and everything but then i heard from my friend she was a stupid ass slut that gets some every weekend and yada yada yada...... So i kinda became cautious and i waited a little bit to see. Well.... i found out it was bull**** and that he heard that from somebody cause yada yada. Basically it all came from a guy that wanted to **** her. He got her high and tried to **** her but she told him off and left. Then he told all this stuff like she takes it up the ass from him and a bunch of stuff.
by the time i found that out, it was 2 late and her interest moved on to other guys.

find out for yourself!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey guys thanks for the responses. Basically I'll just go on a date with her and see how she really is. Again, thanks for the responses.
 
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And another thing JT, I wouldn't ler know any of what this "reliable friend" has said about her. It will probably tear at you NOT to say something, but my advice would be to keep it under your hat, at least for now.

Go out and have a great time, and as most others have said, find out for yourself...give her the benefit of the doubt.
 
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