"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First success ever!... Then frustration

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Alright, first the good news: For the first time in my life, in 18 years, I was able to ask a girl for her number, and get it! Woo! Trust me, this is huge for me, I've been working so hard to be able to do this all my life.

Now the bad news: I have heard from a very reliable friend to stay away from the first girl I got my number from. He has told me that she has moved out of her house (due to family problems), apparently does drugs, and has been with many older guys. None of this I knew before I asked for her number. Needless to say, I am quite frustrated with the circumstances. Can anyone tell me what to do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by BigJTMoney
Alright, first the good news: For the first time in my life, in 18 years, I was able to ask a girl for her number, and get it! Woo! Trust me, this is huge for me, I've been working so hard to be able to do this all my life.

Now the bad news: I have heard from a very reliable friend to stay away from the first girl I got my number from. He has told me that she has moved out of her house (due to family problems), apparently does drugs, and has been with many older guys. None of this I knew before I asked for her number. Needless to say, I am quite frustrated with the circumstances. Can anyone tell me what to do?
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Finding out if all of this true is a good start. I'm sure she can't hide moving out of her house from you. At least see if that is true.
 
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I'd trust the 'very reliable friend'. Numbers shouldnt be THAT hard to come by if you've made a start..
 
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Originally posted by DkurisuJ
I'd trust the 'very reliable friend'. Numbers shouldnt be THAT hard to come by if you've made a start..
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im gonna disagree 100% on this one. I was in a similar situation. I had this girl's interest and everything but then i heard from my friend she was a stupid ass slut that gets some every weekend and yada yada yada...... So i kinda became cautious and i waited a little bit to see. Well.... i found out it was bull**** and that he heard that from somebody cause yada yada. Basically it all came from a guy that wanted to **** her. He got her high and tried to **** her but she told him off and left. Then he told all this stuff like she takes it up the ass from him and a bunch of stuff.
by the time i found that out, it was 2 late and her interest moved on to other guys.

find out for yourself!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey guys thanks for the responses. Basically I'll just go on a date with her and see how she really is. Again, thanks for the responses.
 
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And another thing JT, I wouldn't ler know any of what this "reliable friend" has said about her. It will probably tear at you NOT to say something, but my advice would be to keep it under your hat, at least for now.

Go out and have a great time, and as most others have said, find out for yourself...give her the benefit of the doubt.
 
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