"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First success ever!... Then frustration

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Alright, first the good news: For the first time in my life, in 18 years, I was able to ask a girl for her number, and get it! Woo! Trust me, this is huge for me, I've been working so hard to be able to do this all my life.

Now the bad news: I have heard from a very reliable friend to stay away from the first girl I got my number from. He has told me that she has moved out of her house (due to family problems), apparently does drugs, and has been with many older guys. None of this I knew before I asked for her number. Needless to say, I am quite frustrated with the circumstances. Can anyone tell me what to do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by BigJTMoney
Alright, first the good news: For the first time in my life, in 18 years, I was able to ask a girl for her number, and get it! Woo! Trust me, this is huge for me, I've been working so hard to be able to do this all my life.

Now the bad news: I have heard from a very reliable friend to stay away from the first girl I got my number from. He has told me that she has moved out of her house (due to family problems), apparently does drugs, and has been with many older guys. None of this I knew before I asked for her number. Needless to say, I am quite frustrated with the circumstances. Can anyone tell me what to do?
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Finding out if all of this true is a good start. I'm sure she can't hide moving out of her house from you. At least see if that is true.
 
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I'd trust the 'very reliable friend'. Numbers shouldnt be THAT hard to come by if you've made a start..
 
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Originally posted by DkurisuJ
I'd trust the 'very reliable friend'. Numbers shouldnt be THAT hard to come by if you've made a start..
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im gonna disagree 100% on this one. I was in a similar situation. I had this girl's interest and everything but then i heard from my friend she was a stupid ass slut that gets some every weekend and yada yada yada...... So i kinda became cautious and i waited a little bit to see. Well.... i found out it was bull**** and that he heard that from somebody cause yada yada. Basically it all came from a guy that wanted to **** her. He got her high and tried to **** her but she told him off and left. Then he told all this stuff like she takes it up the ass from him and a bunch of stuff.
by the time i found that out, it was 2 late and her interest moved on to other guys.

find out for yourself!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys thanks for the responses. Basically I'll just go on a date with her and see how she really is. Again, thanks for the responses.
 
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And another thing JT, I wouldn't ler know any of what this "reliable friend" has said about her. It will probably tear at you NOT to say something, but my advice would be to keep it under your hat, at least for now.

Go out and have a great time, and as most others have said, find out for yourself...give her the benefit of the doubt.
 
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