"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First Meeting

sandman6991

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I met this girl on Facebook (it actually does work), got her number and we texted for a day or so, then I asked her on a date. She accepts and says she has a friend that wants to come along. I decide to take my best friend. We've been texting our girls for about a week, and everyone likes their date a lot I think. The first date is tomorrow, we're going to hang out at the mall, go eat, then come back to the mall to see a movie. She's really hot and pretty popular too, so I'm excited for the date. She'll be a junior this year, and I'll be a senior. My question is, what things should I do to ensure that this first meeting isn't too awkward? Should I hug her when I first see her or something? How far is too far for a first date...could I go for a kiss in the movie theater? I'm not that experienced with dates...tips would be much appreciated!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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n00bPimp

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You know you're going to far when the girl stops you from doing it. everything else is game. So always push for the limit.
Yes movie theater is good for a kiss. But first make sure you do the proper kino escalation. First put your arm around her. Once she gets comfortable with that you're clear for the kiss.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sure, you can pull chicks off the internet. Question is... Do you know how to actually act and create attraction in real life? Not over the computer...? This is where you are setting yourself up for failure if you don't know what your doing when you actually meet her in person.
 
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