"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First Meeting

sandman6991

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I met this girl on Facebook (it actually does work), got her number and we texted for a day or so, then I asked her on a date. She accepts and says she has a friend that wants to come along. I decide to take my best friend. We've been texting our girls for about a week, and everyone likes their date a lot I think. The first date is tomorrow, we're going to hang out at the mall, go eat, then come back to the mall to see a movie. She's really hot and pretty popular too, so I'm excited for the date. She'll be a junior this year, and I'll be a senior. My question is, what things should I do to ensure that this first meeting isn't too awkward? Should I hug her when I first see her or something? How far is too far for a first date...could I go for a kiss in the movie theater? I'm not that experienced with dates...tips would be much appreciated!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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n00bPimp

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You know you're going to far when the girl stops you from doing it. everything else is game. So always push for the limit.
Yes movie theater is good for a kiss. But first make sure you do the proper kino escalation. First put your arm around her. Once she gets comfortable with that you're clear for the kiss.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sure, you can pull chicks off the internet. Question is... Do you know how to actually act and create attraction in real life? Not over the computer...? This is where you are setting yourself up for failure if you don't know what your doing when you actually meet her in person.
 
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