"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First Meeting

sandman6991

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I met this girl on Facebook (it actually does work), got her number and we texted for a day or so, then I asked her on a date. She accepts and says she has a friend that wants to come along. I decide to take my best friend. We've been texting our girls for about a week, and everyone likes their date a lot I think. The first date is tomorrow, we're going to hang out at the mall, go eat, then come back to the mall to see a movie. She's really hot and pretty popular too, so I'm excited for the date. She'll be a junior this year, and I'll be a senior. My question is, what things should I do to ensure that this first meeting isn't too awkward? Should I hug her when I first see her or something? How far is too far for a first date...could I go for a kiss in the movie theater? I'm not that experienced with dates...tips would be much appreciated!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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n00bPimp

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You know you're going to far when the girl stops you from doing it. everything else is game. So always push for the limit.
Yes movie theater is good for a kiss. But first make sure you do the proper kino escalation. First put your arm around her. Once she gets comfortable with that you're clear for the kiss.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sure, you can pull chicks off the internet. Question is... Do you know how to actually act and create attraction in real life? Not over the computer...? This is where you are setting yourself up for failure if you don't know what your doing when you actually meet her in person.
 
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