"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First Kiss

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I have been told by girls in the past that i am not a good kisser and tend to be a bit slobbery.

Well I am making a move on a girl on monday if all goes to plan and want to give her a very good first kiss. Any tips?

I am compleltey clueless as haven't kissed many girls while sober.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm sure theres alot of threads on this, do a search.
 
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Don't use a lot of tongue. slow, passionate kisses are best. don't be extremely darty with your tongue.

when I'm making out with a girl, I'd say 1/3 of our kisses uses tongue. Use it when it feels appropriate, and be variant in what you do - change up the tempo, kiss her neck, nibble her ear, and change up how hard your lips press against hers.

I guess the most important tip is to ALWAYS KEEP YOUR HANDS MOVING. caress her hands, her back, run your fingers through her hair, stroke her thighs...they should never stop.

all of this should be easy if you stop stressing over it and just concentrate on enjoying yourself. take in her smell, the way her body feels pressed against yours, and make it as passionate as possible.
 
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