"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First Kiss

Matt Rogers

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I have been told by girls in the past that i am not a good kisser and tend to be a bit slobbery.

Well I am making a move on a girl on monday if all goes to plan and want to give her a very good first kiss. Any tips?

I am compleltey clueless as haven't kissed many girls while sober.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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souporman

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I'm sure theres alot of threads on this, do a search.
 
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Don't use a lot of tongue. slow, passionate kisses are best. don't be extremely darty with your tongue.

when I'm making out with a girl, I'd say 1/3 of our kisses uses tongue. Use it when it feels appropriate, and be variant in what you do - change up the tempo, kiss her neck, nibble her ear, and change up how hard your lips press against hers.

I guess the most important tip is to ALWAYS KEEP YOUR HANDS MOVING. caress her hands, her back, run your fingers through her hair, stroke her thighs...they should never stop.

all of this should be easy if you stop stressing over it and just concentrate on enjoying yourself. take in her smell, the way her body feels pressed against yours, and make it as passionate as possible.
 
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