"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First Kiss

Matt Rogers

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I have been told by girls in the past that i am not a good kisser and tend to be a bit slobbery.

Well I am making a move on a girl on monday if all goes to plan and want to give her a very good first kiss. Any tips?

I am compleltey clueless as haven't kissed many girls while sober.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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souporman

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I'm sure theres alot of threads on this, do a search.
 
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Don't use a lot of tongue. slow, passionate kisses are best. don't be extremely darty with your tongue.

when I'm making out with a girl, I'd say 1/3 of our kisses uses tongue. Use it when it feels appropriate, and be variant in what you do - change up the tempo, kiss her neck, nibble her ear, and change up how hard your lips press against hers.

I guess the most important tip is to ALWAYS KEEP YOUR HANDS MOVING. caress her hands, her back, run your fingers through her hair, stroke her thighs...they should never stop.

all of this should be easy if you stop stressing over it and just concentrate on enjoying yourself. take in her smell, the way her body feels pressed against yours, and make it as passionate as possible.
 
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