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Don Juan
Should be pretty kickass, I'll be going to a new school where I don't know anyone. I'm going to get a good start right off the bat by getting loads of #'s. Ill be a freshman also. Any tips from a veteran highschooler?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
These to groups can make a great combanation when done right.I have the dont give a F*** attitude of a stoner,but dress more like a skater.Always smileing,laughing and being in an all around good mood will bring out the stoner side,and acting like your the king of the world will help bring out the skater style in most people.Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
skater group- self explanatory... I might also note that many girls are into the skater guys these days
stoner clique- Many people in highschool are potheads, but these are the guys who openly admit it and carry the pothead persona. They have the don't give a fu-ck attitude as well. Strangely enough, stoners are usually pretty popular people.
Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
From someone who has graduated highschool, I can offer a bit of advice if you want to have as much success with girls as possible (and in doing so, keep it from feeling like a hellish experience). See, highschool is all about popularity and the characterisitic "cliques." To get women, you need the high social status. If you don't have it, it is going to be a lot harder with them..... I learned this the hard way because I was just too mature for that shi-t and was individualistic, and REFUSED to conform to a certain clique or hang out with certain people, and my success with women wasn't near as good as it could be if I had made half an effort to be popular, but ohhhhhhh, if I only had it to do over. Here are my tips for the absolute easiest way through:
Join clubs, play sports. Playing football or basketball basically GUARANTEES you will be popular and seen a lot and therefore, wanted by women. This is also an easy way into a popular "jock" clique, which, unsuprisingly, is usually the most popular clique of all.
Make a lot of friends, become good friends and hang out with the most popular guys in the school. In time, you should be one of them.
Also, of somewhat lesser importance but still valuable, make friends with many girls, but try not to be best friends with girls you are interested in dating (duh). The friends=fu-cked thing I like to say holds true in highschool as well.
Be outgoing and really sociable. You have to get yourself noticed to be really popular. You have to be involved in things, such as mentioned above, or you could for instance be a class clown (I hated those bast-ards). The bad guys in highschool (you know, the ones who end up dropping out and just generally don't give a fu-ck about anything), are usually pretty successful with women too, so if you are naturally a badly behaving kid, use it to your advantage.
While it is true that there are many ways to success, in highschool the one rule that holds true is that people who are popular usually have more success with girls there.
There are some people who don't belong to a particular clique of course. Most real cliques are relatively flexible in that new people could come in, but if you don't have the right personality or status it might not work right.
A quick listing of male cliques I observed, from the best possible one you could be in to the worst:
jock group- most popular kids in the school. There were actually I think two of these, but they were somewhat connect together.
various groups of preppy popular guys, number depends on size of school. Dressed in polos and most of them come from relatively well-to-do families.
some popular girl cliques who have a few guys in them
skater group- self explanatory... I might also note that many girls are into the skater guys these days
stoner clique- Many people in highschool are potheads, but these are the guys who openly admit it and carry the pothead persona. They have the don't give a fu-ck attitude as well. Strangely enough, stoners are usually pretty popular people.
various groups of relatively unpopular guys who just group up
rednecks- yes, sadly, there are girls who like redneck guys, at least in my school there were
nerd group(s)- there is usually at least one of these. I was in AP classes and was good friends with a lot of smart guys who simply lacked good social skills, but they are often the least successful of all when it comes to women, which is why it was a mistake for me to be seen a lot with them (sounds bad I know, but it is highschool).
goth group- ugh.... unless you like goth girls
Well, that is a basic idea for you. Not having any clique is not really bad, it will just limit your success with women, especially since you have noone to hang out with and meet girls with.
Have fun.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.