“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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First Dates make me Boring!

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Don Juan
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While you can always work towards being more interesting, I do not consider myself a boring person. Among friends, I can often light up the room if I choose.

Buuuuuuttt...

I noticed as I was analyzing a recent "pleasant" first (and final) date, that on that date I had been very boring. And then I realized that nearly all my first (and usually second and third) dates consisted of the boring me.

Why do I become boring?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They're usually a coffee type date (though I've heard that action dates are usually better).

I'll describe dates with both the "exciting me" and the "boring me" to create a contrast:

There was only one where I wasn't boring. I was in this weird mindset/mood where I just felt like.... well... a Don Juan. Almost like I was playing a character. I think she practically soaked her panties right there in the shop. I had to run off somewhere, but she called me later that night (still all worked up :cool: )

The others.... it's like I put on a boring shell. Don't know why this happens, it's almost like a sort of formality. A need to appear innocent, friendly, harmless (and not sexy, dammit) it looks like in retrospect.

I'm not sure what further info would be useful to you, but I'm happy to answer any questions.
 
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