"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First Dates make me Boring!

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Don Juan
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While you can always work towards being more interesting, I do not consider myself a boring person. Among friends, I can often light up the room if I choose.

Buuuuuuttt...

I noticed as I was analyzing a recent "pleasant" first (and final) date, that on that date I had been very boring. And then I realized that nearly all my first (and usually second and third) dates consisted of the boring me.

Why do I become boring?
 

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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They're usually a coffee type date (though I've heard that action dates are usually better).

I'll describe dates with both the "exciting me" and the "boring me" to create a contrast:

There was only one where I wasn't boring. I was in this weird mindset/mood where I just felt like.... well... a Don Juan. Almost like I was playing a character. I think she practically soaked her panties right there in the shop. I had to run off somewhere, but she called me later that night (still all worked up :cool: )

The others.... it's like I put on a boring shell. Don't know why this happens, it's almost like a sort of formality. A need to appear innocent, friendly, harmless (and not sexy, dammit) it looks like in retrospect.

I'm not sure what further info would be useful to you, but I'm happy to answer any questions.
 
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