Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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First Dates make me Boring!

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Don Juan
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While you can always work towards being more interesting, I do not consider myself a boring person. Among friends, I can often light up the room if I choose.

Buuuuuuttt...

I noticed as I was analyzing a recent "pleasant" first (and final) date, that on that date I had been very boring. And then I realized that nearly all my first (and usually second and third) dates consisted of the boring me.

Why do I become boring?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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They're usually a coffee type date (though I've heard that action dates are usually better).

I'll describe dates with both the "exciting me" and the "boring me" to create a contrast:

There was only one where I wasn't boring. I was in this weird mindset/mood where I just felt like.... well... a Don Juan. Almost like I was playing a character. I think she practically soaked her panties right there in the shop. I had to run off somewhere, but she called me later that night (still all worked up :cool: )

The others.... it's like I put on a boring shell. Don't know why this happens, it's almost like a sort of formality. A need to appear innocent, friendly, harmless (and not sexy, dammit) it looks like in retrospect.

I'm not sure what further info would be useful to you, but I'm happy to answer any questions.
 
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