alwaysimproving7
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Say you're walking together in public wheres the best way to put your hand on her? Any diagrams on how to properly put your arm around her waist?
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First date when walking together arm around shoulder or waist?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
There is no rule. You could just walk next to her, hold her hand, arm in arm, arm over shoulder/waist... it all depends how the date is going and where you want it to go. Personally I'd stick to just holding her hand if it's going well... it sends a clear signal without getting too "intimate". It's low risk and good payout if you are trying to get to know her to date.
Randallpink83
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diagrams? really?
My suggestion is whatever you do, DO IT WITH CONVICTION! Be a man and take charge. if you wanna hold her hand, then do it, and be totally comfortable with it, so she will be also.
If you are feeling weird, scared and forcing the physical touch... it will come off as weak and creepy.
Have that SEXUAL INTENT and take what you want.
My suggestion is whatever you do, DO IT WITH CONVICTION! Be a man and take charge. if you wanna hold her hand, then do it, and be totally comfortable with it, so she will be also.
If you are feeling weird, scared and forcing the physical touch... it will come off as weak and creepy.
Have that SEXUAL INTENT and take what you want.
playerone
Senior Don Juan
Save holding hands for after you have kissed her and got intimate.
For now, you can kino her by putting your arm around her shoulder when you're walking through a crowd, to guide her. If you got teasing involved, nudging is cool. If she's giving you a really good vibe, you can even point and touch her cheek, etc, which is more "threatening". But until that stage, do some light kino to set the tone and get her comfortable with you without feeling intimidated.
Don't kino too much, too. Try to space out your advances. Give her a little, once she's comfortable, STOP. Take a break, then continue the kino again.
Push and pull is the basis of attraction.
For now, you can kino her by putting your arm around her shoulder when you're walking through a crowd, to guide her. If you got teasing involved, nudging is cool. If she's giving you a really good vibe, you can even point and touch her cheek, etc, which is more "threatening". But until that stage, do some light kino to set the tone and get her comfortable with you without feeling intimidated.
Don't kino too much, too. Try to space out your advances. Give her a little, once she's comfortable, STOP. Take a break, then continue the kino again.
Push and pull is the basis of attraction.
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If I were you, i'd take initiative. If you make your move out of nervousness, it'll look and feel creepy.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
alwaysimproving7
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Pimp reply so far...darn why didn't I think of that? LOL... like put my hand in her packet...shiiittt but what if she's wearing short shorts with flip flops? haha oh wellcola said: