"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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first date movie, good or bad?

shydude

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On this question people have many different opinions, some say its alright to take her to the movies, since we are still teenagers, but some say, movie dates are getting boring and OLD!

I am still not sure about this, couse i have taken some girls to movies on first dates and everythin went pretty well, what do you guys think, Is it ok to take a girl to movies if your still in High School?

becouse once we grow older, yeaaaa movies are a bit korny, but for teenagers movies are just as fine as anything else....


I wanna hear your oppinion guys
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You're bound to go to the movies sometime.
Make your date interesting and fun, for whatever it may be.

And I know that college students and adults do take their gf/bf to the movies, so yes it's ok to take her to a movie.
 

Themanthatcan

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Most of the time, movies for a first date are a bad thing.

But if your DJing is up to par, then you can probably get away with it and it won't really matter.

The reason it's a bad idea most of the time, is you hardly get a chance to get a good idea of who the person is, and it's tougher to get physical/ kino your date.
 

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I would suggest a fun activity. If you have a mini golf/go karts/arcade type place near you, take your date there. Of course if you go mini golfing, you have to show her correct form, and being a hands on coach is never a bad thing ;).
 

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Agreed. How the hell are you going to work your magic if you're sitting through 2 hours of Hollywood ****e? Save that for later after you've been dating awhile. Believe me its much more fun when you can sneak a flask in and fool around in the back of the theater and than on the first date trying to figure out if you should do the yawn and arm stretch.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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