"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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first date movie, good or bad?

shydude

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On this question people have many different opinions, some say its alright to take her to the movies, since we are still teenagers, but some say, movie dates are getting boring and OLD!

I am still not sure about this, couse i have taken some girls to movies on first dates and everythin went pretty well, what do you guys think, Is it ok to take a girl to movies if your still in High School?

becouse once we grow older, yeaaaa movies are a bit korny, but for teenagers movies are just as fine as anything else....


I wanna hear your oppinion guys
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You're bound to go to the movies sometime.
Make your date interesting and fun, for whatever it may be.

And I know that college students and adults do take their gf/bf to the movies, so yes it's ok to take her to a movie.
 

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Most of the time, movies for a first date are a bad thing.

But if your DJing is up to par, then you can probably get away with it and it won't really matter.

The reason it's a bad idea most of the time, is you hardly get a chance to get a good idea of who the person is, and it's tougher to get physical/ kino your date.
 

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I would suggest a fun activity. If you have a mini golf/go karts/arcade type place near you, take your date there. Of course if you go mini golfing, you have to show her correct form, and being a hands on coach is never a bad thing ;).
 

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Agreed. How the hell are you going to work your magic if you're sitting through 2 hours of Hollywood ****e? Save that for later after you've been dating awhile. Believe me its much more fun when you can sneak a flask in and fool around in the back of the theater and than on the first date trying to figure out if you should do the yawn and arm stretch.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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