"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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first date movie, good or bad?

shydude

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On this question people have many different opinions, some say its alright to take her to the movies, since we are still teenagers, but some say, movie dates are getting boring and OLD!

I am still not sure about this, couse i have taken some girls to movies on first dates and everythin went pretty well, what do you guys think, Is it ok to take a girl to movies if your still in High School?

becouse once we grow older, yeaaaa movies are a bit korny, but for teenagers movies are just as fine as anything else....


I wanna hear your oppinion guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You're bound to go to the movies sometime.
Make your date interesting and fun, for whatever it may be.

And I know that college students and adults do take their gf/bf to the movies, so yes it's ok to take her to a movie.
 

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Most of the time, movies for a first date are a bad thing.

But if your DJing is up to par, then you can probably get away with it and it won't really matter.

The reason it's a bad idea most of the time, is you hardly get a chance to get a good idea of who the person is, and it's tougher to get physical/ kino your date.
 

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I would suggest a fun activity. If you have a mini golf/go karts/arcade type place near you, take your date there. Of course if you go mini golfing, you have to show her correct form, and being a hands on coach is never a bad thing ;).
 

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Agreed. How the hell are you going to work your magic if you're sitting through 2 hours of Hollywood ****e? Save that for later after you've been dating awhile. Believe me its much more fun when you can sneak a flask in and fool around in the back of the theater and than on the first date trying to figure out if you should do the yawn and arm stretch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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