"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First date lack of questions about myself.

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Had first date last night, about an hour and a half. She literally asked one question about how many kids I had and ages. Droned on and one about herself, her divorce and the death of a boyfriend 5 years ago.

like even when I said I was self employed she doesn’t ask what I do? When I say I’m active, doesn’t ask what I do for exercise.

I guess the good news is I stay a mystery.

What you guys think when this happens, cause it does occasionally. Do you start to volunteer info? Is it a sign of low interest? Is it a sign that she’s too into herself?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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its a bog standard female nature, allow me to explain, women by nature are selfish, they know no better,

Why? you may ask yourself....well they need only point at there vagina and they can get 100 long term commitment suckers there and then

they can get obese and still get 100 slightly ok males there and them

they can behave trashy and still get 100 half decent males

Do you see where i am going with this? "they don't have to figure ****t out"

you on the other hand as a male would be rejected from society over a spelling mistake


its like patrice o neil says 'Women don't play chess, it requires 25 levels of male thinking and they only have 2"
 

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Yeah. I guess.
this one spent half the date talking about her ex-husband and her ex-boyfriend. Total turn off. I would never do that on a date.
 

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this is why the humerous phrase N.A.W.A.L.T is so widely used in male communities "Not all women are like that" is the comeback used when a man with knowledge states all women are basically the same

Ive met about 20 women this last year, they all have the same general traits, i met one who left her phone alone, but she was unattractive(its usually the case)

we could sit 1 woman from USA and one from UK and the exact same stories would come out there mouth like they all read the same book

1.EX was abusive
2.EX cheated on her(considering how difficult it is for your average guy to get sex in 2019)
3.Ex still desires her (waffling like shes Sofia Vegara)
4.Ex was coke head/Drunk
5.Ex doesnt turn up for kids

Bla Bla basically shes the problem
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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