"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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first date ideas

wd40

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so i've never really been on a traditional first date because most of the girls i've gotten involved with i've met through friends and its usually like hook up at a party and then start dating. But there is this girl in my physics class this year that flirts with me like crazy and i really wanna ask her out. Im about 99.5 percent sure she'll say yes. Im not concerned with how to ask her out either, that should also be easy. Its just that i dont really have any ideas on what kind of place to take her. Any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wd40

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cmon someone throw me a bone is this that boring of a topic?
 

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Surprise her, take her to a place she won't expect.
If there's a beach near you, watch a sunset with her, do something romantic, bring a rose. (Just a single one, or you could even just pick a flower near you)
Just when the sun goes down is the perfect time to make a move.
 
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