"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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first date ideas

wd40

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so i've never really been on a traditional first date because most of the girls i've gotten involved with i've met through friends and its usually like hook up at a party and then start dating. But there is this girl in my physics class this year that flirts with me like crazy and i really wanna ask her out. Im about 99.5 percent sure she'll say yes. Im not concerned with how to ask her out either, that should also be easy. Its just that i dont really have any ideas on what kind of place to take her. Any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wd40

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cmon someone throw me a bone is this that boring of a topic?
 

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Surprise her, take her to a place she won't expect.
If there's a beach near you, watch a sunset with her, do something romantic, bring a rose. (Just a single one, or you could even just pick a flower near you)
Just when the sun goes down is the perfect time to make a move.
 
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