"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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first date ideas

wd40

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so i've never really been on a traditional first date because most of the girls i've gotten involved with i've met through friends and its usually like hook up at a party and then start dating. But there is this girl in my physics class this year that flirts with me like crazy and i really wanna ask her out. Im about 99.5 percent sure she'll say yes. Im not concerned with how to ask her out either, that should also be easy. Its just that i dont really have any ideas on what kind of place to take her. Any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wd40

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cmon someone throw me a bone is this that boring of a topic?
 

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Surprise her, take her to a place she won't expect.
If there's a beach near you, watch a sunset with her, do something romantic, bring a rose. (Just a single one, or you could even just pick a flower near you)
Just when the sun goes down is the perfect time to make a move.
 
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