First date idea which is not (only) drinks

[Tortendieb]

Hey, what's your favourite first date if you've already chatted to the girl for some time?

Went to a party last friday, it was pretty lame. Was really bored when a friend introduced me to this girl. Ended up talking to her for at least an hour, she was definitely attracted, we were even holding hands for a bit. Took her number.

Now it's been 5 days already... anyway I'm moving into the city next weekend and technically I could see her. I really should call ASAP, right?

But WHAT DATE?
Don't want to just go to a pub, because we've talked alot over drinks already. Actually I'd prefer a not-drinking activity at first, to make her comfortable (I'm a stranger after all), to build up a stronger connection. Also she seemed honestly cool and I'd like to get to know here more. Possible LTR. Also, I hate night club dancing. None of that for me.

BUT I can't think of a bloody activity that would be really fun. Didn't actually ask her about her interests yet, was drunk&pimpin'
- "Coffee after work" is not enough, we've talked too much for that already.
- I love martial arts, rock climbing, play music, but it's not something where I can bring a girl along which I know nothing about. (yeah I was drunk at the party)
- Don't have a bachelor pad ATM, busy moving houses
- She was attracted. But it was a late night party, and all that vanishes over night. I need to reestablish attraction&rapport before I'd ask her out for a "serious date"...


What's a cool date that is easy, laid-back, and gives a good mix of talking and action? Was considering
- Checking out a winter fair: would be perfect, looking at stuff and drinking, but nothing happening ATM
- Ice skating: can be good, but can also be really bad if she's not into it!
- Actually considering a movie. Don't want to do dinner before though. Maybe a long walk after?


****, sorry for ranting. Already waited too long. Although I did tell her "don't expect a call too soon... will call you once I'm in the city"

 

[MOTU]

something where you compete could be fun - go kart racing, raquetball, shuffleboard, whirlyball, etc.

 

[Tortendieb]

I hear that stuff alot, but where I come from that's something you'd only do if you know each other for a bit. Certainly not first date...

But anyway, I should talk about that kind of stuff to find out if she's into some of it. Then maybe for 2nd date.

 

[Tarfun]

Here's a couple I've tried over the last year:

Going to the zoo or aquarium - fun, lots of stuff to talk about

Hitting the driving range - both golfers, made her help me with my swing

Bowling - sounds gay but was actually fun, lots of trash talking, we both sucked

Farmers market - actually not bad, conned her in to cooking me dinner with stuff we bought there, lots of nice/interesting people to talk to

Play tourist - had a blast doing this, mostly cuz she was an awesome girl, we went to the tourist office and hit up like 4 different things I didn't even know we're in my city.

Baseball game - if she is into it, this is a lot of fun, good chance to talk, have a beer and dog

Edit:

Really I love anything out of the ordinary, also stuff where you can compete a little bit is always a good thing. Even if it's just drinks, I always push her to play some pool, throw some darts. Going and doing a trivia night is great too, it's nice and easy because you can just let the game guide the convo

 

[El Payaso]

Bowling, putt putt golf, amusement park, go kart racing, art gallery, museum, arcade etc.