"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First date flake. I haven't responded.

CMNILS87

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This is the correct answer imo, the fact she's still texting means she hasn't written you off. There's nothing wrong with doing what marmel suggested, just tell her to make it up to you by coming over and cooking you a meal or something.

I honestly don't even see a problem with telling her to meet you somewhere either. If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't still be apologetically texting you.

Uninterested girls will just disappear and forget you. This girl hasn't done that yet.
She’s keeping an orbiter on the hook. I’ve had thst happen multiple times. This isn’t rocket science. She’s texting 3 others dudes right now too for the attention
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She’s keeping an orbiter on the hook. I’ve had thst happen multiple times
i do agree with this but its a catch 22 i havent read all the replies
,women are not courteous creatures they do not give a fck if they let you down
however you can turn the same woman into worshipping you once dated and made love well to

OP use common sense if after 2 attempts shes still contacting you like your partners but shes flaked on two dates...kick her to the kerb
 
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