CMNILS87
Master Don Juan
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She’s keeping an orbiter on the hook. I’ve had thst happen multiple times. This isn’t rocket science. She’s texting 3 others dudes right now too for the attention
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
First date flake. I haven't responded.
- Thread starter RalphaWreck
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i do agree with this but its a catch 22 i havent read all the replies
,women are not courteous creatures they do not give a fck if they let you down
however you can turn the same woman into worshipping you once dated and made love well to
OP use common sense if after 2 attempts shes still contacting you like your partners but shes flaked on two dates...kick her to the kerb