"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First Date: Café or Café & Bar

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hey, im gonna go on a first date with this girl, and im thinking bw 2 places to take, on is a really nice lounge café, (Central Perk like) and another is Hippo's which is pretty much also a café, but like 90% of the drinks include some alcohol.

i now the chick does drinks, (not like alcoholic, but she isnt "NO ALCOHOL EVER"-like)

both places are nice and comfortable, which would be better?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by bangoker
hey, im gonna go on a first date with this girl, and im thinking bw 2 places to take, on is a really nice lounge café, (Central Perk like) and another is Hippo's which is pretty much also a café, but like 90% of the drinks include some alcohol.

i now the chick does drinks, (not like alcoholic, but she isnt "NO ALCOHOL EVER"-like)

both places are nice and comfortable, which would be better?
where did you meet her, is she more a good girl, or more of a baaaaad girl.
for former go to a for latter go to b.
 

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This is a pointless question.

Take her to church...take her to Chuck E Cheeses..take her to the Las Vegas porn convention...

When will ya learn that it has little to do where you take the girl..and MORE to do with how you make her feel when she is with you.

Cafe or Cafe with alcohol? WTF...this is the most stupid question.

More importantly, PLAN THE WHOLE THING. Nothing is worse for a girl on a date than a man that doesn't have a plan on where he is taking her.

Women hate guys that ask "sooo uhhhh waddahh you wanna do?"

Be excited about the date rather than worrying about where it will be. And MAKE HER EXCITED ABOUT IT!

"Yea...I'm going to pick you up at 6..we'll hit the comedy club at 7 and swing by Hippo's Cafe lounge around 9ish for some coffee and drink...oh yea..they have this awesome cheesecake dessert...four layers of double chocolate!! "

Man with a plan!
 

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Cafe bar

I'd go for the cafe bar. Despite what some on this board say, I think a few drinks or a little liquor make things a little more exciting, and relaxing.

I'd go to the bar. You'd also seem a little more edgier than the guy who does the regular cafe thing.
 
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I like doing the coffee shop then to a bar then to my place. Works everytime! Over coffee I do C&F. At the bar I start kino and will kiss close as you heads call it...then to my place to fawk close.

So far I haven't had one problem with this system.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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