"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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First 3 hours on POF.com . .

Forty0ztoFreedom

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. . with a fake profile and a picture I took from some dude's modeling page. An 8/10 contacted me and after some back-and-forth VERY DIRECT flirting has agreed to bang next Friday.

Looks don't what?

I'll let her down easy. I just wanted to see for myself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nice, I've noticed chicks, no matter what their intentions almost never like to come right out and admit that's why they'll meet up. They can be huge sluts and still don't want you to admit that's why they are going to "hangout."

You got her to say it straight up? Nice....

I got a response from some chick when I said "Smash pelvis's sometime?" She gave me her # in the next e-mail and texted me some dirty pics. But she ended up flaking.
 

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joverby said:
Nice, I've noticed chicks, no matter what their intentions almost never like to come right out and admit that's why they'll meet up. They can be huge sluts and still don't want you to admit that's why they are going to "hangout."

You got her to say it straight up? Nice....

I got a response from some chick when I said "Smash pelvis's sometime?" She gave me her # in the next e-mail and texted me some dirty pics. But she ended up flaking.
the more attractive she finds you the more forward and slutty she will be..this is true the younger and hotter a females is the more they value your looks..
 

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Damn, seems like I DO have to get a haircut now ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Maybe her profile is fake lol

2 fake profile's getting it on. The future?
 

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Hey OP, your one anecdotal observation really proves your hypothesis! ;)

I've done dozens of fakes over the years and have found that being awesome in every way on paper and in pics gives you a slight advantage, but not nearly as much as I would have thought.

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2 fake profile's getting it on. The future?
Actually yes there's something called "Cloud Girlfriend" where people make fake profiles and then email each other as those fake people. They never meet for obvious reasons. It's called "fantasy dating," I guess for people who would rather have a 10 in their head than a 5 in their bed.

It was originally going to open as a fake girlfriend who would post sh1t to your facebook wall, but facebook said they wouldn't accept fake profiles so that nixed the company's idea.
 

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Oddly enough the experiment reminded me what its like to go in WITHOUT thinking about 'looks', since it wasn't 'me.' Honestly, I proved to myself how easier it is with awesome looks helping you, but also how much more fun it is to not deal yourself out of the game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey forty, out of curiosity, how many women have either messaged you first, or looked at your profile with the model's pic up?
 

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This woman messaged me first so I assume she looked at my profile first. I've also had 2 others message, but not in the same league. I actually just told them the truth. One thought it was funny.

I set out to see how easy it would be to get something going with a model's picture. You never know if this girl would have flaked, but it was pretty easy. I did use stuff I've learned here and in the community over the years though. I wasn't an AFC or some boring dude trying not to offend her.

I suppose Part 2 of the test would be to repeat the same things with an ugly dude's picture, but I think I'm done.
 
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