"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First 3 hours on POF.com . .

Forty0ztoFreedom

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. . with a fake profile and a picture I took from some dude's modeling page. An 8/10 contacted me and after some back-and-forth VERY DIRECT flirting has agreed to bang next Friday.

Looks don't what?

I'll let her down easy. I just wanted to see for myself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nice, I've noticed chicks, no matter what their intentions almost never like to come right out and admit that's why they'll meet up. They can be huge sluts and still don't want you to admit that's why they are going to "hangout."

You got her to say it straight up? Nice....

I got a response from some chick when I said "Smash pelvis's sometime?" She gave me her # in the next e-mail and texted me some dirty pics. But she ended up flaking.
 

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joverby said:
Nice, I've noticed chicks, no matter what their intentions almost never like to come right out and admit that's why they'll meet up. They can be huge sluts and still don't want you to admit that's why they are going to "hangout."

You got her to say it straight up? Nice....

I got a response from some chick when I said "Smash pelvis's sometime?" She gave me her # in the next e-mail and texted me some dirty pics. But she ended up flaking.
the more attractive she finds you the more forward and slutty she will be..this is true the younger and hotter a females is the more they value your looks..
 

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Damn, seems like I DO have to get a haircut now ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maybe her profile is fake lol

2 fake profile's getting it on. The future?
 

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Hey OP, your one anecdotal observation really proves your hypothesis! ;)

I've done dozens of fakes over the years and have found that being awesome in every way on paper and in pics gives you a slight advantage, but not nearly as much as I would have thought.

VinceV said:
2 fake profile's getting it on. The future?
Actually yes there's something called "Cloud Girlfriend" where people make fake profiles and then email each other as those fake people. They never meet for obvious reasons. It's called "fantasy dating," I guess for people who would rather have a 10 in their head than a 5 in their bed.

It was originally going to open as a fake girlfriend who would post sh1t to your facebook wall, but facebook said they wouldn't accept fake profiles so that nixed the company's idea.
 

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Oddly enough the experiment reminded me what its like to go in WITHOUT thinking about 'looks', since it wasn't 'me.' Honestly, I proved to myself how easier it is with awesome looks helping you, but also how much more fun it is to not deal yourself out of the game.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey forty, out of curiosity, how many women have either messaged you first, or looked at your profile with the model's pic up?
 

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This woman messaged me first so I assume she looked at my profile first. I've also had 2 others message, but not in the same league. I actually just told them the truth. One thought it was funny.

I set out to see how easy it would be to get something going with a model's picture. You never know if this girl would have flaked, but it was pretty easy. I did use stuff I've learned here and in the community over the years though. I wasn't an AFC or some boring dude trying not to offend her.

I suppose Part 2 of the test would be to repeat the same things with an ugly dude's picture, but I think I'm done.
 
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