"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey all...im a pharmacy student and i work (or worked) at a local retailer CVS. Yesterday i was leaving with a bottle of water that i thought i paid for but i guess i forgot to pay for it. The manager asked me for my recipt when i was leaving and i told her that it was in the pharmacy (but we couldnt check because the pharmacy was already closed) so the next day she asked me for the recipt again and we couldnt find it...blah blah ends up i got fired from my job..they said that there not gonna press any chargers tho. im still scared...have any of u ever been fired from a job before? and do u guys know how it could effect my future??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Deep Dish

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I've been fired from jobs for poor job performance during their probationary period; never for any bad behavior, but it's never a good feeling.

It's been estimated that one out of three businesses which fail, fail because of employee theft. The estimates are that employee theft is a $10-80 billion a year "industry", which would be upwards of three times the size of the oil industry. Just yesterday I was trying to verify someone's loss of income and discovered not only were they fired from their employer for stealing but that they were out on bail for felony grand theft, presumingly from their job. So yeah, no wonder why you weren't let off the hook, it's a systemic problem which employers face.

The job will show up for any job that you apply for in which the company performs a background check.
 

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are u sure that it shows up on background checks? i was looking online and it dosent say anything about that....they told me that my name wont show up on those private companies that keep track of theft because it was theft for under $5.00....but has anyone else been fired and does anyone know it will say that i was fired from this job when a future employer does a background check on me? or would it just say i left the company
 

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Deep Dish said:
I've been fired from jobs for poor job performance during their probationary period; never for any bad behavior, but it's never a good feeling.

It's been estimated that one out of three businesses which fail, fail because of employee theft. The estimates are that employee theft is a $10-80 billion a year "industry", which would be upwards of three times the size of the oil industry. Just yesterday I was trying to verify someone's loss of income and discovered not only were they fired from their employer for stealing but that they were out on bail for felony grand theft, presumingly from their job. So yeah, no wonder why you weren't let off the hook, it's a systemic problem which employers face.

The job will show up for any job that you apply for in which the company performs a background check.
did u mention those jobs that u were fired from on ur resume?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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juice said:
did u mention those jobs that u were fired from on ur resume?
That depends how long you worked there and what was the reason for termination of employment. If you put that on the resume they might want refrences to call and check. If I were you I wouldn't mentioned I worked there.

As for you getting fired the circumstances are kind of strange since they never presented to you with any kind of proof. I wouldn't worry too much about affecting your future since there were never any charges pressed against you to the police and that's how you get a record. The police is too busy to charge someone taking a $5 bottle so therefore the matter has been solved internally within the company. You can pretty much apply for a new job anywhere but this company.
 
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