Yeah thats right... I finnaly went up to a girl today and said HI. and after that i relized how easy it is to talk to girls.. ! JEEZ!! haha i was talking to them all day at school i just got real use to approaching today! haha its so easy now..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
finnaly Faced my fear.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Viper
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A step ahead of me.
I'm guessing you don't go to a real preppy school where alot of people judge you either.
I'm guessing you don't go to a real preppy school where alot of people judge you either.
The-Sultan
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oh my g0d, nice one, i remmber when i was shy, stupid sh1t really.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
pimpfromdayone
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Being shy is about the worst thing you could do when it comes to getting women. You say you're now over your fear, after one approach, and that's awesome. It took me several cold approaches before I got over it.
i mean.. after 1 approach.. it broke that barrier.. i have made like 5 cold approaches in the past couple days.. and after that many approaches even tho they werent alot. U relize that being shy is a waste of time and stressful.
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My first real approach was on this girl I had a HUUUGE crush on, and in fact, I still haven't found a girl more attractive than her, so even after an approach on her I was still nervous, and needless to say, screwed everything up. I know how it feels to have a confidence boost on some days when you talk to a lot of hot girls, it's like you don't hesitate to talk to anyone and you act completely without thinking, which is good. On other days you might have trouble getting started, but after that first approach you just go on a rampage, lol.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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