Yeah thats right... I finnaly went up to a girl today and said HI. and after that i relized how easy it is to talk to girls.. ! JEEZ!! haha i was talking to them all day at school i just got real use to approaching today! haha its so easy now..
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
finnaly Faced my fear.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Viper
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A step ahead of me.
I'm guessing you don't go to a real preppy school where alot of people judge you either.
I'm guessing you don't go to a real preppy school where alot of people judge you either.
The-Sultan
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oh my g0d, nice one, i remmber when i was shy, stupid sh1t really.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
pimpfromdayone
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Being shy is about the worst thing you could do when it comes to getting women. You say you're now over your fear, after one approach, and that's awesome. It took me several cold approaches before I got over it.
i mean.. after 1 approach.. it broke that barrier.. i have made like 5 cold approaches in the past couple days.. and after that many approaches even tho they werent alot. U relize that being shy is a waste of time and stressful.
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My first real approach was on this girl I had a HUUUGE crush on, and in fact, I still haven't found a girl more attractive than her, so even after an approach on her I was still nervous, and needless to say, screwed everything up. I know how it feels to have a confidence boost on some days when you talk to a lot of hot girls, it's like you don't hesitate to talk to anyone and you act completely without thinking, which is good. On other days you might have trouble getting started, but after that first approach you just go on a rampage, lol.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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