Yeah thats right... I finnaly went up to a girl today and said HI. and after that i relized how easy it is to talk to girls.. ! JEEZ!! haha i was talking to them all day at school i just got real use to approaching today! haha its so easy now..
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
finnaly Faced my fear.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I'm guessing you don't go to a real preppy school where alot of people judge you either.
I'm guessing you don't go to a real preppy school where alot of people judge you either.
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oh my g0d, nice one, i remmber when i was shy, stupid sh1t really.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Being shy is about the worst thing you could do when it comes to getting women. You say you're now over your fear, after one approach, and that's awesome. It took me several cold approaches before I got over it.
i mean.. after 1 approach.. it broke that barrier.. i have made like 5 cold approaches in the past couple days.. and after that many approaches even tho they werent alot. U relize that being shy is a waste of time and stressful.
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My first real approach was on this girl I had a HUUUGE crush on, and in fact, I still haven't found a girl more attractive than her, so even after an approach on her I was still nervous, and needless to say, screwed everything up. I know how it feels to have a confidence boost on some days when you talk to a lot of hot girls, it's like you don't hesitate to talk to anyone and you act completely without thinking, which is good. On other days you might have trouble getting started, but after that first approach you just go on a rampage, lol.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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