"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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finished the 3% Man on sunday... (Corey Wayne)

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I just found my old Doc Love e-book hard copy that I printed out years ago. I think I'll give a once-over and see if there's anything interesting in there. Good day for it... NY blizzard.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The System assume women are more manipulative than 3% Man, but "The Stystem" has outdated info , it seem it was written before mobile era
Good point. Doc Love's, The System gives readable and information on what pushes women's buttons. But it is dated when it comes to a NUMBER of things. The most obvious, IMHO is that he recommends men keep their hands to themselves on dates... waiting for the woman to touch you first.... really bad advice.... I do agree you shouldn't be touching her if she is giving you BL clues that she's ready to go home. But if you can read women properly you'll know when she's interested and you should escalate touching. If you do not do this, she will think you do not like her, and she'll shut you down.

Other advice that really doesn't work today is not talking about sex.... Jez... in the USA if you are on a 3rd date with a woman and haven't fvcked her, she'll think you're gay. I'm sure his advice works with very conservative women in small towns, but in most of the US with most women it's really not going to work out too well for you following that advice. I really think this is were Wayne is trying to go... like I said in an earlier post, his book is The System with Sex...

Like I said read Doc Love until you understand the nature of women and what pushes their buttons... then ready the Mystery Method to learn when and how to escalate... you've do fine.
 
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