Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I just found my old Doc Love e-book hard copy that I printed out years ago. I think I'll give a once-over and see if there's anything interesting in there. Good day for it... NY blizzard.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
finished the 3% Man on sunday... (Corey Wayne)
- Thread starter wifehunter
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Good point. Doc Love's, The System gives readable and information on what pushes women's buttons. But it is dated when it comes to a NUMBER of things. The most obvious, IMHO is that he recommends men keep their hands to themselves on dates... waiting for the woman to touch you first.... really bad advice.... I do agree you shouldn't be touching her if she is giving you BL clues that she's ready to go home. But if you can read women properly you'll know when she's interested and you should escalate touching. If you do not do this, she will think you do not like her, and she'll shut you down.
Other advice that really doesn't work today is not talking about sex.... Jez... in the USA if you are on a 3rd date with a woman and haven't fvcked her, she'll think you're gay. I'm sure his advice works with very conservative women in small towns, but in most of the US with most women it's really not going to work out too well for you following that advice. I really think this is were Wayne is trying to go... like I said in an earlier post, his book is The System with Sex...
Like I said read Doc Love until you understand the nature of women and what pushes their buttons... then ready the Mystery Method to learn when and how to escalate... you've do fine.