"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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finished the 3% Man on sunday... (Corey Wayne)

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I just found my old Doc Love e-book hard copy that I printed out years ago. I think I'll give a once-over and see if there's anything interesting in there. Good day for it... NY blizzard.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The System assume women are more manipulative than 3% Man, but "The Stystem" has outdated info , it seem it was written before mobile era
Good point. Doc Love's, The System gives readable and information on what pushes women's buttons. But it is dated when it comes to a NUMBER of things. The most obvious, IMHO is that he recommends men keep their hands to themselves on dates... waiting for the woman to touch you first.... really bad advice.... I do agree you shouldn't be touching her if she is giving you BL clues that she's ready to go home. But if you can read women properly you'll know when she's interested and you should escalate touching. If you do not do this, she will think you do not like her, and she'll shut you down.

Other advice that really doesn't work today is not talking about sex.... Jez... in the USA if you are on a 3rd date with a woman and haven't fvcked her, she'll think you're gay. I'm sure his advice works with very conservative women in small towns, but in most of the US with most women it's really not going to work out too well for you following that advice. I really think this is were Wayne is trying to go... like I said in an earlier post, his book is The System with Sex...

Like I said read Doc Love until you understand the nature of women and what pushes their buttons... then ready the Mystery Method to learn when and how to escalate... you've do fine.
 
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