There is this girl i think is cute, we work with each other (this is another girl) i found her on friendster. should i just try to add her as a friend or will that be too AFC to go out and find someones profile on the net and add them? Should i just ask for her number first and then her email? We just flirt here and there at work...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
so i came in and saw her and asked for her sn.... she said "oh you wanna add me on friendster??" (i dont know how she knew...) and she said "wait...SN or friendster?" i was like "whatever...". Then she went to go write it down and while we were walking to the counter she said "Oh i feel so special now you wanna add me..."
what does that mean? you guys think shes into me??
Fvck man - JUST DO WHAT YOU FEEL LIKE DOING. It matters little if you mess up - it's JUST... A.... GIRL. JUST.... ANOTHER.... FRICKIN'.... HUMAN..... BEING. You are being such an over-analyzing puzzy, I want to puke.
You are interested in a girl you see at work all the time, and you want to get her by using the internet??? Guys explain to me how this is NOT CLASSIC AFC beheavior??
I think you should leave the internet alone and start your game with this chick in person, even more so because you can talk to her IN PERSON!!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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