You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
There is this girl i think is cute, we work with each other (this is another girl) i found her on friendster. should i just try to add her as a friend or will that be too AFC to go out and find someones profile on the net and add them? Should i just ask for her number first and then her email? We just flirt here and there at work...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
so i came in and saw her and asked for her sn.... she said "oh you wanna add me on friendster??" (i dont know how she knew...) and she said "wait...SN or friendster?" i was like "whatever...". Then she went to go write it down and while we were walking to the counter she said "Oh i feel so special now you wanna add me..."
what does that mean? you guys think shes into me??
Fvck man - JUST DO WHAT YOU FEEL LIKE DOING. It matters little if you mess up - it's JUST... A.... GIRL. JUST.... ANOTHER.... FRICKIN'.... HUMAN..... BEING. You are being such an over-analyzing puzzy, I want to puke.
You are interested in a girl you see at work all the time, and you want to get her by using the internet??? Guys explain to me how this is NOT CLASSIC AFC beheavior??
I think you should leave the internet alone and start your game with this chick in person, even more so because you can talk to her IN PERSON!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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