"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Finding something to highten your intrest level?..

Demonicale

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Ok what i'm asking is for some examples of something i could take up as in an activity or hobbie that would impress/make me more intresting to people in general?.

Recently i've come to the conclusion that whenever i get intrest shown in me i kind of obsess over it.So i thought to myself that if i had a really good hobbie or intrest then i would'nt be such a loser.

And the fact that i'm bored with my life at the moment.

I can rejoin my local gym, that's an option...

just wondered what you guy's do to show you have some kind of intresting life?.

Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Work out.
Guitar/music.
Writing.
Sports.
Career.
Drawing/art.

Those are some basics. I would try exploring different things, try and find something you're already naturally good at, something you enjoy, and just practice the hell out of it until you're the ****ing Bruce Lee of it.
 

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Find something you are truly passionate about. Something that can captivate all your interest and fill you with energy. The energy and interest you show towards a hobby is mirrored in those around you.

I recommend a sport (Maybe something you did as a kid but you gave up)
 

Demonicale

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Thanks for the replies, it's really helpful and does give me the confidence to go through with it.

First thing monday morning i've decided to rejoin the gym i use to belong to..

Now just have to think of a few more things, i always think that a persons intrests and hobbies define you as a person...and i have none at the moment really apart from the pc....so you see why i want to act.
 
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