"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Finding something to highten your intrest level?..

Demonicale

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Ok what i'm asking is for some examples of something i could take up as in an activity or hobbie that would impress/make me more intresting to people in general?.

Recently i've come to the conclusion that whenever i get intrest shown in me i kind of obsess over it.So i thought to myself that if i had a really good hobbie or intrest then i would'nt be such a loser.

And the fact that i'm bored with my life at the moment.

I can rejoin my local gym, that's an option...

just wondered what you guy's do to show you have some kind of intresting life?.

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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Work out.
Guitar/music.
Writing.
Sports.
Career.
Drawing/art.

Those are some basics. I would try exploring different things, try and find something you're already naturally good at, something you enjoy, and just practice the hell out of it until you're the ****ing Bruce Lee of it.
 

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Find something you are truly passionate about. Something that can captivate all your interest and fill you with energy. The energy and interest you show towards a hobby is mirrored in those around you.

I recommend a sport (Maybe something you did as a kid but you gave up)
 

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Thanks for the replies, it's really helpful and does give me the confidence to go through with it.

First thing monday morning i've decided to rejoin the gym i use to belong to..

Now just have to think of a few more things, i always think that a persons intrests and hobbies define you as a person...and i have none at the moment really apart from the pc....so you see why i want to act.
 
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